COMBINED LESSON FOR STUDENTS OF GRADES 7-9
"AM I INTERESTING IN MYSELF?"
Teacher: Good afternoon!
I want to confess to you that the age of 13-14 is my favorite. The age of growing up, the discovery of one's "I". Age of first love. The age of the first big victories and defeats…. I have no doubt that each of you - interesting person. Each one is interesting in its own way.
And so, I would like to invite you to a conversation that is relevant for you today “Who am I? What am I? "AM I INTERESTING IN MYSELF?"
Even the ancients said that the most mysterious sphinx on Earth is a man. Thinkers say that a person is the simplest and the most complex.
Slide 2. As W. James wittily remarked, “none of us would refuse to be immediately handsome, healthy, well-dressed, a great strong man, a rich man, a wit and at the same time a philosopher, statesman, explorer of Africa and a fashionable poet. But that is absolutely impossible."
Slides 3-4 SURVEY
Firstly, I want to ask you “What does an interesting person of your age mean?” (children answer). We got different answers, and everyone is right in their own way.
Slide 5. Poet Yevtushenko E. A wrote “There are no uninteresting people in the world ....”
There are no uninteresting people in the world.
Their fates are like the histories of the planets.
Each has everything special, its own,
and there are no planets like it.
And if someone lived unnoticed
and was friends with this invisibility,
he was interesting among people
by its very lack of interest.
Everyone has their own secret private world.
There is the best moment in this world.
There is the most terrible hour in this world,
but all this is unknown to us.
Slide 6. DW: Yes, each person is a mystery to others. Let's try to open the curtain of secrecy about ourselves. I offer youexercise "Seven I"
Everyone takes paper and pencil. It is necessary to answer the question “who am I, what am I?” seven times. You can use characteristics, traits, interests, feelings to describe yourself, starting each sentence with the pronoun "I". The one who finishes pins a piece of paper to the wall for others to read.
Moderator comment:answering the question “who am I?”, you designate the place that you occupy in this world, construct the image of your “I”. Analyze your answers. Are there critical comments among them? Or do you tend to exaggerate your abilities? Pay attention to role and biographical characteristics. What tense are the verbs in your answers? What do you live? If your answers include the past, present and future, then you have a full sense of life.
Slide 7 The road to yourself is the road to a lifetime.
Do you think it is important for a person to be interesting for himself?
How can you tell if a person is interesting or not?
Often in the literature there is an identification of an interesting person and a successful person.
Is the statement true - Most often, a successful person is interesting to himself.
Slide 8 Let's rate your success.
Slide 9 Indeed, it is important for a person to be interesting for himself.
I want each of you now to show how interesting a person he is..
Exercise "Announcement"
Tell me guys, which of you is registered in social networks?
Today, most correspond and share news on social networks.
I suggest you write the text of the ad. In it you need to tell a little about yourself, about your hobbies, about what you like to do in free time. The announcement should be short and concise.
This is the kind of announcement I would make about myself... (W. reads out his announcement)
After completing the task, announcements are collected and read out. Participants guess who is the author of each. Analysis of the exercise: was it difficult to write about yourself?
Why is this person interesting to you? (children read each other's announcements, you can ask less active ones)
Slide 10. W: And now I offer youexercise "Chamomile revelations"
Continue the sentence.... The statement must be sincere.
- I'm happy because...
- My friends appreciate me...
- I like when…
- The most important thing for me...
- I like when…
- Sometimes people don't understand me because I...
- I want to…
- I love myself because...
- I always get offended if...
- It makes me happy when...
- I differ from others in that...
- I feel ashamed when...
- The world around me seems...
- I am a good friend because...
- I don't trust people who...
- I get angry when...
- I don't like it when...
- I feel sad when...
Slide 11. U: “People are like rivers, the water is the same in all and the same everywhere, but each river is sometimes narrow, sometimes fast, sometimes wide, sometimes quiet, sometimes clean, sometimes cold, sometimes muddy, sometimes warm. So are people. Each person carries in himself the rudiments of all human properties and sometimes manifests one, sometimes another, and is often not at all like himself, remaining all the same one and himself, ”said L. N. Tolstoy
I wish you to always remain yourself and be interesting to others and to yourself.
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"Am I interested in myself?"
Full name ___________________________________ class _____ date ____________________
"Who am I? What am I?
- Who loves and knows how to study?
- Who knows how to forgive insults?
- Who can make friends?
- Who believes in himself?
- Who has a hobby?
- Who loves to read?
Combined class
"Am I interested in myself?"
Full name _____________________________ class _____ date ______
"Who am I? What am I?
- Who loves and knows how to study?
- Who is sure that he has a real friend?
- Who knows how to forgive insults?
- Who participated and won in the Olympiads?
- Who can collaborate on a team?
- Who can make friends?
- Who has ever been class president?
- Who considers himself a responsible person?
- Who reads newspapers, magazines, books every day?
- Who believes in himself?
- Who tries to never be late?
- Who feels healthy?
- Who successfully learns a foreign language?
- Who owns the computer and the Internet?
- Who has already made a choice in favor of healthy lifestyle life?
- Who is interested in what is happening in the world?
- Who has a hobby?
- Who has ever won prizes in competitions?
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There is nothing easier than understanding what a girl is interested in. There is nothing more difficult than to understand what is interesting for a girl. The devil knows what is going on in their heads, they are unpredictable and think according to some kind of chaotic schemes of their own, or in general, the devil understand how. However, you can catch them literally on trifles.
1. She spends time with you even when you're not around.
How to make a woman love you? Stay away from her! Let her think about you more and wind herself up. This is where she falls asleep. If she starts commenting, and not communicating with you (commenting in our understanding is telling you something, while there is no response from you). If she keeps her distance, she might be waiting for you to make the first move. Or maybe you just didn't give up on her.
2. She follows you on social media
That's where the information dump! If you notice that she was digging through your profile: likes and comments on old photos, details of your account that popped up in a conversation, know that she took the time to find out more about you. Actions scream: “I'm curious! I want to know more! MORE!" One caveat: if she does not ask you to be friends, she may not want to contact you in real life.
3. She doesn't want to share you with anyone.
A woman who likes you will do anything to mark her territory. She will prevent you from communicating with other girls and constantly rub next to you so that everyone learns: it’s busy here. If she does not start fighting for you in this way, then in her eyes you are not worth it.
4. She asks questions
Obviously she wants to know more about you. "Aren't you going to get married for an hour?" she casually interjects in a conversation. The stream of questions continues to pour on your head? Congratulations. If you give monosyllabic answers to them, she will go further and will never regret it. So open your mouth, don't be shy.
5. She provokes you to express feelings.
When a woman wants you, she needs confirmation that her desires have been noticed and are about to be satisfied. She'll stroke her neck, lick her lips, toss her hair around to make you split and look at her so unequivocally that she'll want to jump out of her clothes right away.
6. She reflects your actions
Everyone knows a simple trick: in order to please a person and gain confidence in him, you must repeat his gestures. Whoever does this consciously and according to science is an asshole and a strategist. Whoever does this by itself, he naively wants to please. If one person reflects another, then he is already interested.
7. She stays close enough to kiss
Pay attention to how she reacts when you approach her at a disastrously short distance. She does not move away, but, on the contrary, moves closer? The more she likes you, the more comfortable she is in your company, the closer she wants to be with you. When she starts to straighten up and move away, then it’s a no brainer: you’re a shitty seducer.
8. She looks at you
The longer the better for you. Eye contact is a kind of invitation, without responding to which, you can reject it. What will happen to you if you look at her longer? You will see boobs later, but at the very beginning, look into your eyes!
A girl will never say: "I like you, let's be friends, meet and fuck." She will stubbornly beat around the bush, give signals and subtle hints of sympathy. How to understand that you are interested in her?
Our communication is a set of symbols and signals. This may seem completely stupid, because we never think about symbols and signals - they go without saying. Human communication consists of 55% non-verbal signals, 38% words, and 7% is the manifestation of the unconscious, which does not mean anything at all. This is an indicator of operation on some devices, which is lit rather in order to reassure you.
People are still bastards and hypocrites. Get the hell out of what they really mean. It seems to you that everything is fine, and then they will stick a knife in your back like in the Game of Thrones. And it was necessary to look for non-verbal signals. Of course, you should not go deep, but also listen only to words. It's been a terribly difficult life!
It goes without saying that if you want to know if a woman is interested in you, you should focus on the non-verbal signals that she sends you. No lady will really tell you what she wants from you, even torture her! Here we highlight 10 proven ways for you to understand that a woman is consciously and unconsciously interested in you. Get your ass up, man! It should be understood that if a girl did all this in a single case, it does not mean anything.
1. Touching the hair
Yes, this is an old topic. Forty years of constant research into verbal and non-verbal cues has successfully proven that touching your hair during a date is the very sign by which you can determine that you are! Girls' hair is like a cat's tail, an indicator of emotions and current status. You need to pay attention to light gentle stroking of the hair, throwing it back and neatly putting the strand behind the ear. Also, by the hair you can determine that she is bored - the girl scratches the base of the neck, which goes into the hairline. Touching the hair also works in men, we inherited all this from primates.
2. Lip licking
So the girl shows that she is extremely interested in you. Perhaps this is due to oral contact, we will not go into depth. Or maybe she just wants to kiss. But if a girl does this really often, perhaps it's just a bad habit.
3. Teasing
Shows tongue, smiles, giggles or teases you. When one person teases another, it's always a reaction test. Most often completely unconscious. The girl in such a cunning way wants to provoke you to a reaction, most often positive. Sometimes very decisive actions - so that you pull her to you and kiss her. Maybe that's what she wants? Still, you should be careful, maybe this is just a check? The main thing is not to take all this to heart, they carry water on the offended.
4. Moves closer
We all have a personal space into which not everyone wants to let someone not close.
The mere physical approach of another person shows how close we let him to us and how much we like him. Physical proximity increases the attraction between two people. When a woman deliberately moves closer to you, she likes you and tries to make you feel the same way. Let her take this step if your feelings are mutual, however, if you don't like invading your personal space, this can be a worrying indicator. Maybe she doesn't like you at all. If a girl moves away from you when you approach her, chances are you are reading her signals wrong.
5. She actively shares information with you.
You dumped information on her, and she shared with you about the same amount of knowledge or even more? Everything is going according to plan, comrade! She has a positive attitude towards you. If we like a person, we always share something with him, albeit not too deep, but personal. Girls like to talk about themselves much more than men. If she doesn't like you, she will be terribly reserved. All these: “Uh-huh!”, “Nice”, “Great” are indicators that you are not nice to her. There is no need to guess - one hundred percent hit. If she not only actively shares information with you, but also tries to feed you food from her plate or buy you a beer, she has a crush on you!
6. Very active participation in the conversation
Active even for usually unsociable girls. Forget about all those pick-up things. Sometimes, no matter how you approach a girl, no matter how you touch her or smile, everything is useless. Monosyllabic answers, lack of smiles, stiffness - all this clearly makes it clear that you are not welcome here. But a smile, laughter, active participation in the conversation are indicators that she feels at ease and is comfortable with you.
7. Open posture
If a girl is squeezed, puts some object between you, sits half-turned or crosses her arms on her chest - everything is bad. In turn, an open posture, turning the head and whole body towards you hint that she is glad to see you and communicate with you.
8. Imitate your gestures
Another legacy from our primate ancestors. When we repeat after someone his movements and words, this is a sign of great sympathy. Women often do this when they really want something from us. You touch your face - she touches your face, it gives you a feeling of warm home atmosphere and a sense of kinship. She mirrors your gestures and therefore seems like a congenial person to you. Sometimes it's a blatant lie.
9. Head tilt with a smile
Another flirtatious gesture that has been amply described and studied by scientists interested in nonverbal behavior. This means that you have caught her attention and are doing everything right. Paired with "shooting" eyes, this combination can be deadly attractive to us men. And the girls know this very well.
