Do you often hear or say the phrases "I don't care", "I don't know", "I don't care"? What we say is not just words. Our words, actions, gestures, for the most part, are a reflection of our inner world. Excessively frequent use of phrases of indifference may indicate the inability to desire and achieve the fulfillment of one's desires. We say: “It doesn't matter…” and those who care decide for us. We say: “No difference” and those for whom this difference exists decide for us. You can relate to life, to your own future in different ways: work with enthusiasm or half-heartedly, take care of the benefits of the cause or only about yourself, go towards difficulties or hide in the bushes, take an active or simply comfortable position. One of the secrets of self-realization and success is an active life position, courage of initiative and readiness to act.
The dynamics of modern social relations requires a school graduate to have a certain set of qualities. If you study the requirements of employers for ads in the "Vacancies" section, then you can draw up an approximate psychological portrait of the person being hired. In addition to business and professional qualities, employers want to see such qualities as activity and sociability, the ability to overcome difficulties and initiative, the desire for creativity and mobility, discipline and responsibility. Consequently, a graduate needs an active life position, including in order for him to be competitive in the labor market. What do we mean by the term "active life position"? An active life position means actions in the name of achieving the goal, the selection of ways to overcome problems, by searching for constructive solutions. At the heart of the active life position of the individual lies the motive for achieving success. In school years, an active life position is manifested in the ability to realize oneself in various types activities: and community service, and in sports events, and in school or classroom self-government, etc. The life of a student becomes much brighter and more interesting if he realizes himself not only in teaching, but also in extracurricular or out-of-school work. For active people it is very important to study well, work effectively, achieve High Quality in any kind of activity. They strive to improve an existing result or get a fundamentally new one; able to enjoy their work or learning activities; rejoice in success in small things; they are interested in bringing the work they have started to the end, as they clearly know why they need it. They are more persistent in overcoming obstacles. As a rule, such people are already successful at the stage of choosing a profession, as they are interested in future prospects and are able to plan their career in advance. professional growth. The presence of an active life position gives a person the opportunity rapid advance in the service, because the management notices such personnel at the beginning of their professional path. Sometimes, already at the stage of internships, such students may receive tempting job offers. Apart from career development and material stability, an active position gives recognition among colleagues, prestige and a certain amount of independence associated with the ability to make decisions independently. In turn, such a specialist receives moral satisfaction from work, the opportunity to own development in the process of activity.
How to develop an active life position? Where to begin?
1. Learn to set goals
Where should you start any activity in the first place? With a goal statement. Blurring of expected results, unwillingness to understand oneself provoke difficulties in setting adequate goals. Pay attention to the rules for formulating goals. The goal should be:
- specific;
- measurable;
- motivating;
- realistic;
- limited in time to reach.
2. Get rid of bad habits
By bad habits here we mean not only the abuse of alcohol and smoking, we are talking about things that can take you a lot of time without any benefit. For example, aimless pastime in in social networks, many hours of "hanging" in on-line games. This does not mean at all that you should completely stop appearing on social networks or your favorite game, just know when to stop, because the time saved can be spent on something else.
3. Read
Expand your horizons. Read books, popular science magazines, internet blogs successful people etc. Get useful information in various fields: economics, politics, sociology, psychology, etc.
4. Make the most of every weekend
The main purpose of the weekend is not to sleep and "do nothing". Have an active rest: visit museums, exhibitions, theaters, communicate with interesting people, make new acquaintances. The more impressions you get, the better you will begin to understand many things.
5. Master time management
Time management is a technology for organizing time and increasing the efficiency of its use. In some ways, this is not so much a set of techniques as a lifestyle and philosophy of the value of time in a fast flow of information and an ever-changing world. Learn to plan your time, it will be very useful at different stages of professional growth.
6. Bring newness into your life
Take the risk of changing the image, rearrange your room. Show interest in those types of art that you know little about yet. Finding something new will allow you to develop your creativity.
7. Invest in yourself
Today, just one education is not enough. Everywhere knowledge is required in many areas. Of course, if you study at only one college or university, then it will be problematic for you to get all the necessary knowledge for further work. Therefore, you should consider getting additional education. You can attend various trainings, seminars. And remember that learning from additional educational programs possible while still a student.
8. Don't be afraid
Try to overcome the fear that your ideas may not work. Successful people always take risks. There is no way to know if an idea was a good idea without trying it.
9. Surround yourself with successful people
Learn from successful people. Ask them for advice. Communicate with them as much as possible. Acquire knowledge that can be very useful in the future.
10. Leave negative experiences in the past
Live in the present and think about the future. Take only valuable experience from the past, and all negative experiences should be released. Otherwise, instead of going forward, you will constantly look back.
How active is your life position?
If you want to know how active your position in life is, we suggest evaluating a number of statements. If you agree with the corresponding statement, then put a "+" sign next to its number.
- I know my goals and desires well.
- I studied myself, I know what I'm capable of.
- I know how to navigate the flow of information and independently obtain the necessary information.
- I believe in myself, in the possibility of achieving success and goals.
- I believe that I have the right to choose in any competitive situation - not only do they choose me, but I also choose.
- I know how to turn to other people for help, to make them allies in the implementation of my plans.
- I know how to benefit from mistakes, learn from my own experience and from the experience of other people.
- Faced with an obstacle, I look for new ways to resolve the difficulty that has arisen.
- I feel enough strength and energy to achieve my goals.
- When building ways to achieve the main option, I always think of a spare.
- I strive to gain experience by trying myself in different areas.
- I constantly analyze and adjust my actions depending on the results obtained.
- I know how to take into account the opinions of other people in the development and implementation of my plans, without losing my position.
- I have the skills of behavior in business situations: I can arrange a meeting with the right people, introduce myself, talk about my capabilities.
Count the number of pluses that turned out in the end.
- 12-14 - Your position is very active, you know your goals and desires well and go towards them with confidence. You are energetic and active, surpass those around you with activity and speed of decision-making, you know how to take responsibility. In your environment, you are desired and loved, primarily for your dynamism and extraordinary activity.
- 8-11 - Your position is quite active, but you do not always have the determination to achieve your desires. Your ability to act quite often depends on your desire, mood.
- less than 8 - Unfortunately, your energy is not your strongest quality. You get tired quickly, reluctant to take responsibility. Keep your opinion to yourself and prefer to stay away. There is too much indifference and caution in your relations with others. You make decisions with great difficulty. Your energy, as well as your ability to act, depend on your imagination and not always justified fear. It makes sense to think seriously and, perhaps, seek advice from a psychologist-professional consultant.
Indicators of the formation of an active life position:
- positive attitude to deeds and undertakings, readiness to carry them out;
- experience of participation in public life, which is associated with the performance of specific duties, assignments;
- the presence of a certain level of organizational skills;
- experiencing responsibility for their work;
- favorable position in interpersonal communication.
An active position implies independent, creative, flexible behavior. And the activity of the position and success depends only on you! Follow the above recommendations, take more initiative in different areas activities and remember that "water does not flow under a lying stone."
I, Stepanova Elizaveta Alekseevna, a student of the 11th grade of the Lyceum No. 1 of the city of Nefteyugansk. I live in a small, but very beautiful town, which is not marked on any map ... But this does not mean that my life is small and boring. Every day I go to school with pleasure, my favorite subjects are English, mathematics, social studies, Russian language, literature and physical education. I strive to develop in many directions.It is easy for me to study at school. I graduated from the ninth grade with a special certificate, which is very important for me. A lot of work has been done to prepare for the exams and a great finish high school. All subjects seem interesting to me, they broaden my horizons. In mathematics, I feel like a scientist who deduces formulas and deftly handles complex equations and problems. English is especially easy for me as I love to travel around the world and practice my language skills. I like to take part in debates that give me the opportunity to reasonably prove my position in life or defend a certain point of view in a foreign language. Literature, I consider the most important subject that helps us humanly determine in life. The formation of a personality is impossible without reading classical literature. Sport is a separate line, I can run fast, so in physical education I can give odds to any boy. Not a single sporting event takes place without my participation.Stadium of the first school, noise, movement, animation, tension. We are ready. We are ready to run for victory even to the ends of the world. We are the team of the Lyceum, a participant in the city cross " gold autumn". Behind the training, anxiety, now the main thing is to get together, overcome the excitement and demonstrate everything that you are capable of. There was no fear, because there were our own people nearby, and it was not the first time they ran. But such a colossal success was achieved for the first time - we are the first in the city! The moral support of friends and teachers helped a lot - they shouted and cheered us up. And they ran at a distance of 500 meters, it was difficult, the competition was very high. We will remember these competitions for a long time. But that's all over. Breathing calmed down, let others run further ... There was some strange feeling. On the one hand, it was easy, because we were exhausted ... And on the other hand, the excitement from the fact that we wanted to know the result - we found out only the next day and were incredibly happy! I remember this day, because I experienced such sensations for the first time. Ahead of the new "Golden Autumn"
I am pleased to take part in various Olympiads, because they give an objective assessment of our knowledge. Trying yourself in a certain subject area is always interesting. As a rule, I participate in olympiads in social science, physical education, Russian and English, mathematics. Preparation, participation, the long-awaited result - I enjoy everything.
I am interested not only in studies, but also in sports results. I often go to all-Russian competitions, and managed to establish myself on the treadmill. Recently, I took first place in the All-Russian race "Zelentsovacupin the city of Omsk. I regularly win district competitions. Sport helps me take my mind off mental stress, I am glad that I often win victories. This is an indescribable feeling when the heart beats faster, adrenaline is increased, and you finish first by a wide margin at important competitions for you.
At the beginning of May 2010, I was lucky to participate in the final competitions of the second open Russian championship in universal all-around held in Moscow. Participation in such competitions is a great honor and responsibility, because I represented my educators and teachers, my city and district. 340 educational institutions from 59 regions of Russia and the CIS countries sent their best athletes to the competition. I managed to beat my rivals and show two third results.
But I was not always involved in athletics. Basketball, ballroom dancing, tennis, acrobatics, swimming - I tried to find myself in everything. Thanks to sports, I traveled to many cities in Russia and found many good friends.
I have been dancing ballroom for three years. It was an unforgettable time. Dancing is the perfect activity for romantic girls. They develop plasticity, teach to listen and feel music.
The activities that I prefer do not end with sports and studies. More than once my writings were published in city and school newspapers. The topics were always different, ranging from my own interests to reflections on complex socially important problems. You don’t need to hide your life position, you need to be able to defend it ... A person experiences pleasant feelings when his thoughts are heard, and not just heard, but printed ... You feel that you are not just a grain of sand in this vast ocean full of life, but more - part of the country's younger generation.
I am proud that in 2012 my name was included in the Russian Encyclopedia of Children's Achievements. It's nice to realize that already now someone needs and is interested in you, that people will learn about your successes. I am glad that my children and grandchildren will be able to be proud of my results, holding this encyclopedia in their hands.
Erudition, erudition, prudence, responsibility - these are the qualities I appreciate in people. If you are surrounded by such personalities, then you are very lucky. As for my social circle, parents, teachers and classmates can support any topic, even very complex or just relevant. I am grateful to them for their support!
This academic year as the best student educational institutions city of Nefteyugansk was awarded the mayor's grant. It is nice to know that my desire for success has been so highly appreciated.
I'm interested in being on stage. The ability to naturally feel in public is very important. artistic reading(Shakespeare's sonnets in English), participation in dramatizations ... Since I study at the Lyceum, a very important place in our educational institution is given to culture, moral issues. Traditionally, in October we have a literary drawing room, a kind of event where everyone can find themselves, show their talent. I consider it my duty to take an active part in it.
If we talk about my views on life, then my family plays a huge role for me. Our family has a book that contains the biography of all my grandparents up to the fifth generation. I'm proud of my family. Parents always support, they worry with me important points life. And they are always proud of me. Without them, there would be no my successes, and the taste of victory would not be so sweet, I always feel their support, this is my support ...
I love the region where I was born and live. He is rich and fertile. I am proud that I live in Siberia.
I am a patriot of my country, I want to make it better, I want Russia to take a leading position in all spheres of life, especially in the economy, and I intend to engage in economic policy. How Russian citizen I am proud of my country, culture and will contribute to its prosperity.
Active life position - start to success
My life is a continuous series of events. I take off, then I fall, then I find, then I lose ...
I've been this way since I was a kid. I didn't sit still. I always wanted to learn something new. I ran, jumped, and did not notice my carefree childhood. But now I was seven years old, and I went to first grade.
I still remember my first step towards an active life. My favorite school helped to make it. Of course, there were some rehearsals with Nina Aronovna Gubareva. I read a poem by E. Uspensky "My Puppy" at the competition. I was eight years old then. And now fifteen.
Time flies very quickly, very imperceptibly. Likewise, our life will fly by. You won't have time to blink an eye, and everything that happened is already behind you. I do not understand those people who stop at one thing and do not want to take off further, do not want to discover new talents and opportunities in themselves. After all, our reality is so boring, which is probably why I chose creativity. There is nothing more beautiful in the world than the excitement before a concert, or rehearsals with full gear.
Everyone finds himself in different ways, and everyone finds idols for himself. Dmitry Bikbaev has been my idol for the fourth year now. Recently, I have begun to appreciate and respect him more and more, and very often I say a huge human thank you to him! His words are very encouraging. And poetry allows thoughts to "escape" into the light.
There is only one meaning in life
But she is also empty.
If there is no development
Endless longing
To an unattainable ideal...
These are his words… She “touched” my soul so much that I changed. And I began to notice that after Dmitry's creativity, a person becomes better. Sometimes you even start to forget about such words as “cool”, “cool” words of admiration “great” come out of your mouth
Perhaps you are reading this now and do not understand what I am talking about? Just Dmitry Bikbaev was born in an ordinary family, in Ussuriysk. Like me, at the age of eight, I began to participate everywhere, strived upwards, and then came to Moscow and entered GITIS (RATI). Imagine, a simple guy from Ussuriysk entered one of the most prestigious theater universities in the world! And not just entered, but graduated with honors. But it started like everyone else. From school matinees.
Burn without reading
As before, she burned with a look.
And after the memory say
Why did you portray love so passionately ...
This is also the work of Dmitry Bikbaev. On the this moment he is publishing his own book.
And what will happen to me? Unfortunately, I don't know this. But I strive to lay the foundation for my future profession right now.
About two years ago I realized what theater is. I realized how great and immortal it is! I realized that at the moment the theater is my life. Yes, yes, I know that it’s still too early for me to talk about such great things, but still, it’s written in big letters on my list: GO TO NGTI !!! Who would have thought that that competition at the age of eight would help me make some start in success! Start to the future! And even though I’m not strong in my studies, the letters “H” sometimes appear in the class magazine. I am happy because I do not sit still for a long time. I have a favorite thing! I have favorite friends and close people! I have many hobbies! In addition to reading poetry, I am attracted to music. Graduated in fifth grade music school accordion class. I recently learned a few chords on the guitar. And thanks to Dmitry Bikbaev, I got acquainted with poetry not as a reader, but as a poet. I hope that in the near future many will hear my "abstract rhymes".
Do you often hear or say the phrases "I don't care", "I don't know", "I don't care"? What we say is not just words. Our words, actions, gestures, for the most part, are a reflection of our inner world. Excessively frequent use of phrases of indifference may indicate the inability to desire and achieve the fulfillment of one's desires. We say: “It doesn't matter…” and those for whom this difference exists decide for us.
You can relate to life, to your own future in different ways: work with enthusiasm or half-heartedly, take care of the benefits of the cause or only about yourself, go towards difficulties or hide in the bushes, take an active or simply comfortable position. One of the secrets of self-realization and success is an active life position, courage of initiative and readiness to act.
The dynamics of modern social relations requires a school graduate to have a certain set of qualities. If you study the requirements of employers for ads in the "Vacancies" section, then you can draw up an approximate psychological portrait of the person being hired. In addition to business and professional qualities, employers want to see such qualities as activity and sociability, the ability to overcome difficulties and initiative, the desire for creativity and mobility, discipline and responsibility. Consequently, a graduate needs an active life position, including in order for him to be competitive in the labor market.
What do we mean by the term "active life position"?
Active life position means actions in the name of achieving the goal, the selection of ways to overcome problems, by searching for constructive solutions. At the heart of an active life position lies the motive for achieving success.
During school years, an active life position is manifested in the ability to realize oneself in various activities: in social work, in sports events, and in school or classroom self-government, etc. The life of a student becomes much brighter and more interesting if he realizes himself not only in teaching, but also in extracurricular or out-of-school work.
For active people it is very important to study well, work effectively, achieve high quality in any kind of activity. They strive to improve an existing result or get a fundamentally new one; are able to enjoy their work or study activities; rejoice in success in small things; they are interested in bringing the work they have started to the end, because clearly know why they need it. They are more persistent in overcoming obstacles. As a rule, such people are already successful at the stage of choosing a profession, because. are interested in future prospects and are able to plan their professional growth in advance.
The presence of an active life position gives a person the opportunity for rapid promotion, because management notices such personnel at the beginning of their professional path. Sometimes, already at the stage of internships, such students may receive tempting job offers. In addition to career growth and financial stability, an active position gives recognition among colleagues, prestige and a certain amount of independence associated with the ability to make decisions independently. In turn, such a specialist receives moral satisfaction from work, the possibility of his own development in the process of activity.
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How to develop an active life position? Where to begin? |
1. Learn to set goals
Where should you start any activity in the first place? - With a goal statement. Blurring of expected results, unwillingness to understand oneself provoke difficulties in setting adequate goals.
Pay attention to the rules for formulating goals. The goal must be
specific;
measurable;
motivating;
realistic;
limited in time to reach.
2. Get rid of bad habits
By bad habits here we mean not only the abuse of alcohol and smoking, we are talking about things that can take you a lot of time without any benefit. For example, aimless pastime in social networks, many hours of “freezing” in on-line games. This does not mean at all that you should completely stop appearing on social networks or your favorite game, just know when to stop, because the time saved can be spent on something else.
3. Read
Expand your horizons. Read books, popular science magazines, Internet blogs of successful people, etc. Get useful information in various fields: economics, politics, sociology, psychology, etc.
4. Make the most of every weekend
The main purpose of the weekend is not to sleep and "do nothing". Have an active rest: visit museums, exhibitions, theaters, communicate with interesting people, make new acquaintances. The more impressions you get, the better you will begin to understand many things.
5. Master time management
Time management is a technology for organizing time and increasing the efficiency of its use. In some ways, this is not so much a set of techniques as a lifestyle and philosophy of the value of time in a fast flow of information and an ever-changing world. Learn to plan your time, it will be very useful at different stages of professional growth.
6. Bring newness into your life
Take the risk of changing the image, rearrange your room. Show interest in those types of art that you know little about yet. Finding something new will allow you to develop your creativity.
7. Invest in yourself
Nowadays, getting just one education is not enough. In today's world, knowledge is required in many areas. Of course, if you study at only one college or university, then it will be problematic for you to get all the necessary knowledge for further work. Therefore, you should think about getting additional education. You can attend various trainings, seminars. And remember that you can study additional educational programs while still a student.
8. Do not be afraid
Try to overcome the fear that your ideas may not work. Successful people always take risks. There is no way to know if an idea was a good idea without trying it.
9. Surround yourself with successful people
Learn from successful people. Ask them for advice. Communicate with them as much as possible. Acquire knowledge that can be very useful in the future.
10. Leave negative experiences in the past
Live in the present and think about the future. Take only valuable experience from the past, and all negative experiences should be released. Otherwise, instead of going forward, you will constantly look back.
If you want to know how active your position in life is, we suggest evaluating a number of statements. If you agree with the corresponding statement, then put a "+" sign next to its number.
I know my goals and desires well.
I studied myself, I know what I am capable of.
I am able to navigate in the flow of information and independently obtain the necessary information.
· I believe in myself, in the possibility of achieving success and goals.
· I believe that I have the right to choose in any competitive situation - not only do they choose me, but I also choose.
I know how to seek help from other people, to make them allies in the implementation of my plans.
I can learn from mistakes, learn from my own experience and from the experience of others.
· Faced with an obstacle, looking for new ways to resolve the difficulty.
I feel enough strength and energy to achieve my goals.
· When arranging ways to achieve the main variant, I always think over a spare one.
· Seek to gain experience by trying myself in different areas.
· Continuously analyze and adjust my actions depending on the results obtained.
· I can take into account the opinions of other people in the development and implementation of my plans, without losing my position.
· I have the skills of behavior in business situations: I can arrange a meeting with the right people, introduce myself, talk about my capabilities.
Count the number of pluses that turned out in the end:
· 12 – 14. – Your position is very active, you are well aware of your goals and desires and confidently meet them. You are energetic and active, surpass those around you with activity and speed of decision-making, you know how to take responsibility. In your environment, you are desired and loved, primarily for your dynamism and extraordinary activity.
· 8 – 11. - Your position is quite active, but you do not always have the determination to achieve your desires. Your ability to act quite often depends on your desire, mood.
· less than 8 pluses.– Unfortunately, your energy is not your strongest quality. You get tired quickly, reluctant to take responsibility. Keep your opinion to yourself and prefer to stay away. There is too much indifference and caution in your relations with others. You make decisions with great difficulty. Your energy, as well as your ability to act, depend on your imagination and not always justified fear. It makes sense to think seriously and, perhaps, seek advice from a psychologist-professional consultant.
Indicators of the formation of an active life position:
positive attitude to business and undertakings, readiness to carry them out;
experience of participation in public life, which is associated with the performance of specific duties, assignments;
· the presence of a certain level of organizational skills;
experience of responsibility for their work;
Favorable position in interpersonal communication.
An active position implies independent, creative, flexible behavior. And the activity of the position and success depends only on you! Follow the recommendations above, show more initiative in different areas of activity and remember that "water does not flow under a lying stone."
My life is a continuous series of events. I take off, then I fall, then I find, then I lose ...
I've been this way since I was a kid. I didn't sit still. I always wanted to learn something new. I ran, jumped, and did not notice my carefree childhood. But now I was seven years old, and I went to first grade.
I still remember my first step towards an active life. My favorite school helped to make it. Of course, there were some rehearsals with Nina Aronovna Gubareva. I read a poem by E. Uspensky "My Puppy" at the competition. I was eight years old then. And now fifteen.
Time flies very quickly, very imperceptibly. Likewise, our life will fly by. You won't have time to blink an eye, and everything that happened is already behind you. I do not understand those people who stop at one thing and do not want to take off further, do not want to discover new talents and opportunities in themselves. After all, our reality is so boring, which is probably why I chose creativity. There is nothing more beautiful in the world than the excitement before a concert, or rehearsals with full gear.
Everyone finds himself in different ways, and everyone finds idols for himself. Dmitry Bikbaev has been my idol for the fourth year now. Recently, I have begun to appreciate and respect him more and more, and very often I say a huge human thank you to him! His words are very encouraging. And poetry allows thoughts to "escape" into the light.
There is only one meaning in life
And this meaning is love
But she is also empty.
If there is no development
Endless longing
To an unattainable ideal...
These are his words… She “touched” my soul so much that I changed. And I began to notice that after Dmitry's creativity, a person becomes better. Sometimes you even start to forget about such words as “cool”, “cool” words of admiration “great” come out of your mouth
Perhaps you are reading this now and do not understand what I am talking about? Just Dmitry Bikbaev was born in an ordinary family, in Ussuriysk. Like me, at the age of eight, I began to participate everywhere, strived upwards, and then came to Moscow and entered GITIS (RATI). Imagine, a simple guy from Ussuriysk entered one of the most prestigious theater universities in the world! And not just entered, but graduated with honors. But it started like everyone else. From school matinees.
Burn without reading
As before, she burned with a look.
And after the memory say
Why did you portray love so passionately ...
This is also the work of Dmitry Bikbaev. He is currently releasing his own book.
And what will happen to me? Unfortunately, I don't know this. But I strive to lay the foundation for my future profession right now.
About two years ago I realized what theater is. I realized how great and immortal it is! I realized that at the moment the theater is my life. Yes, yes, I know that it’s still too early for me to talk about such great things, but still, it’s written in big letters on my list: GO TO NGTI !!! Who would have thought that that competition at the age of eight would help me make some start in success! Start to the future! And even though I’m not strong in my studies, the letters “H” sometimes appear in the class magazine. I am happy because I do not sit still for a long time. I have a favorite thing! I have favorite friends and close people! I have many hobbies! In addition to reading poetry, I am attracted to music. In the fifth grade she graduated from a music school, accordion class. I recently learned a few chords on the guitar. And thanks to Dmitry Bikbaev, I got acquainted with poetry not as a reader, but as a poet. I hope that in the near future many will hear my "abstract rhymes".
And in the plans I have many, many unfinished business! Which I am doing little by little. And I can loudly shout: “An active life position is a start to success!”
